Why MOST new age spirituality is selfish and socially alienating

I agree with most meditation techniques and actually have been GREATLY benefited on a personal and social level by almost all of it, but, I think that the sense of wellbeing and joy we get from being "spiritual" is bullshit at times because we get addicted to the feeling rather than an underlining purpose we should be driven by, otherwise we are no better than pigs swimming in mud, the mud becomes "happiness" or "one-ness", it serves as a mind (or ego) excuse to not be bothered by the world, kind of a shelter with no social repercutions since you are "spiritual".

Spirituality becomes in a selfish way just a rationalized form of being different or cool, there is no actual purpose in it, you become (and pardon my language) a spiritual pussy.

This message is not meant to hurt you but if it does then im doing it right, what I mean by this is that we should be actually fucking the world with our conciousness or our LOVE if you will, that means that whenever someone says something hurtfull to you and you go back into "hes not evolved" "she has a reptilian background" "Ill deal with this later when im present" "Cant they appreatiate im actually making them higher concious" then you are being a spiritual pussy (TM).

Not only that but since now you are "spiritual" then everything normal is not enough for you (not specifically you, ok?), its they against you, the brain needs to process who you are at the same time so psychologically almost all of it comes into play, anytime you are not in a meditative or open state you are being identified by your body or mind or both, so, you still obviouslly have an ego, a fat or fit body and problems. This is were the socially alienating part comes into play since you are so used to escaping the world and you have a spiritual ego (whenever you are not concious) you rationalize yourself deeper and deeper on how you are essentially better than those greedy guys that make tons of money or that person that is too "closed minded" instead of actually having the balls (for men) or the deep love (for girls) to actually help the world with your conciousness or love.

The way you actually help the world is not important at this moment, it doesnt have to be this:

Hope it resonates with some of you it definitely does for me in huge level since it is very easy for me to fall back into spiritual douche mode.

Peace. :)

Pablo.